Long-distance relationships are very difficult to withstand. They take a lot of trust, patience, commitment, and creativity. I have been in three long-distance relationships and it's enough to make someone crazy. Two of my experiences were Soldiers who deployed for the war. One is my current situation, and while he's not in a third-world country trying to make peace and stay alive, and we're not enduring a year's worth of time apart, it's still challenging. Since I have blossomed into the "sex kitten" I am today versus the person I was in my other two long-distance relationships, that aspect creates another hardship. What to do with the horniness...
When I left, my man and I made a no-sex pact. Five months of no sex of any kind. I think that lasted ten days. Maybe. Now, we have a no-sex-without-each-other pact. Now, masturbation can be a great thing (if I may steal from Martha Stewart). However, doing it alone while in a relationship makes me feel guilty. Even if I am recalling experiences with the person I'm with, it's still not enjoyable to me. However, I think the longest time I managed was maybe sixty days previously. But, this whole aspect of doing it together is new and liberating. So, how can you take advantage?
Given that your partner is in a position to communicate regularly, these ideas work very nicely:
1. Sexting. Sexy, racy text messages are the easiest, mildest ways to ease into long-distance sex. Nothing can drive a person more insane and into instant horn-ball mode than getting a random text message that says, "I would do anything to give you a blowjob right now" or "I can't stop thinking about tying you up and licking you all over"... Of course, you have to get over your own hurdles before you can feel comfortable with doing this. It goes back to the Awwwk-ward! post. Once you let go of the stigmas behind dirty talk, you'll be amazed at how easy this is and how close you and your partner can get. Sharing intimate context like this and being able to be open to each other works wonders on a relationship and your sex life. And, if the thought of being honest with what you want to do or want to have done makes you blush and feel crazy, start with sexting. You can do it from far away or from another room. No face-to-face nervousness. And once you hit "send" you can't take it back. I guarantee if you tried this while sitting in the other room, you'd be getting it on in ten minutes. Added bonus: camera phone. Need I say more?
2. Internet Sex. Similar concept to sexting, with talking on an instant messenger of sorts, except now you can interject things into your conversation. Play it out like a story. "So, picture me wearing this" and shoot him a link to a website of whatever you have in mind. "I really want to get you all alone here," link to an amazing place, like a telephone booth, "and bend you over that ledge there, press you up against the glass..." and let the other person's mind fill in the photo. Better still, remember that camera phone? Upload photos and send them.*
3. Writing. Writing sex is easy and gets you more fired up than you think. If you play out the scene and get comfortable with the language, then you can write your own sex mini-story. However, the downfall to this is that it's a teaser. If you write this all out and ship it off into the mail, there is no gratification there. You're just hot and bothered with no place to go, if you are following a pact like mine. You can do this via email and maybe segue into the next step, though.
4. Phone sex. Taking all of your newly-acquired sexting and writing skills and putting them into to spoken words whispered into your lover's ear is not a huge leap if you are prepared. Bring out your racy vocabulary (you can't just say, in your best throaty sex voice, "I want to have sex with you."). Start coming to terms with the words that are going to vividly describe what you're talking about. And, I'm not sure if you can do phone sex with "polite" words. If you are a "polite" person (I am not) and the thought of telling someone you want him to fuck you just isn't doable for whatever reason, then try alternate words for it, I guess. But I think "making love" just doesn't happen unless you're actually in physical presence of one another. So anyway. Gather up your vocabulary (fuck, dick, clit, penis, we use a Spanish slang term for vagina [panocha] because, really, how sexy is that word, breasts, boobs, whatever you prefer), set the mood, and make the call. Maybe start with sexting and then call. This is where you have to be assertive--at least one of you. Someone has to take the reins. Tell each other what to do, what you want done, and do it. One person can start the conversation and set it up, and the other person can take over. This is easy to transfer by saying something like, "you crawl up my body, kissing every inch until you make it to my ear, and then you whisperrrrr..." The first step in real-time paired-masturbation.
5. Webcam. For years I've hated and scoffed at webcams. However, I started using one to communicate in my current relationship, and I love it. I love it for practical and endearing purposes, of course, but webcam sex is high quality long-distance stuff! Get a Bluetooth headset for your phone and take it to the next level. You can really set the mood, show off some sexy attire, strip off the sexy attire, and tell each other what to do and watch it.
Even if you aren't in a long-distance relationship, some of these ideas I would recommend just to spice things up. It's a whole new level of comfort to your relationship, a more complete way of bonding, when you can be so honest with each other. Even when I thought my sex life was fantastic, I can't even imagine what it will be like now that we've found other ways to enjoy each other and grow so close together while being so far apart.
Happy Humping!
*Disclaimer: you really have to be comfortable with the fact that some day, that person may hate you so much that they plaster your naked photos all over the internet. Just sayin'. And don't assume that the person that you're with would "never do that" because you're in the "most committed relationship ever." Really come to terms with this idea.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Monday, September 26, 2011
I Promise!
I am still writing! Bear with me!! Lots of research, information, and juicy details comin' up!
Happy Humping!
Happy Humping!
Monday, September 5, 2011
Laundry, Dishes, Grocery Shopping, Sex---Your Weekly Chores
If you're treating sex like it's a chore, then there's a serious issue. I know that this has to be integral to that absurd 103 statistic. Sex should be an enjoyable experience for both parties.
I've been in relationships where things started hot and heavy for maybe a month and then started to become average and, after a few months, I wanted to do it as much as I wanted to clean the bathroom. He'd always initiate it by asking or saying he wanted to have sex (right then and there) and I was always disinterested. I'd cave, say, "you've got three minutes," and count the seconds in my head (lit-er-all-y). How terrible is this, really?! What the hell was wrong with me...
Looking back, I guess the main issue was that I didn't feel pursued (and I felt disconnected). Did it really matter that he was having sex with me, or just that he was having sex? I surely didn't feel sexy. He'd make comments to me throughout the day about how sexy I was or something to that effect, but I never really felt it. When I was in the mood, it seemed he wasn't. Sometimes, he was holding out on me as payback. Another guy I was with would practically look through me, paying more attention to the television than his naked woman*. Trust me, I tested this many times.
I'm a very needy person when it comes to attention. I'm sure that most women are. And we love to be pursued. Often, guys think that this pursuit should end once they have us. Roommate, wife, whatever. Guys, I can tell you now..., start GENUINELY pursuing your woman and you'll get laid. We like the chase. And this chase doesn't mean two minutes of kissing our necks. It's an all-day event. Oh yes, that's right... Women don't typically wrap their heads around sex in a matter of seconds like guys do. You have to bypass all the clutter in our brains first.
Start the day with something romantic. We like to hear how much you love us, and how much we mean to you, so start there. I'll delve into this whole mush-factor later. By lunch time, get sexy. Let us know what you're thinking about---something that's driving you crazy about us. It doesn't even have to be extreme, but now that we're all melty from your loving comments, it's time to implant the sex seed. By dinner, remind us of one particularly steamy occasion. We love reminiscing. Maybe get a little touchy-feely but not too much. Let us desire you. I can't speak for the rest of us women, but I enjoy being teased as long as it ends well. If you keep putting these ideas in our minds, dessert will be most enjoyable. But, for women, it's about the chase and about the secret bond you are sharing with her. It's a level of intimacy that drives us crazy.
Now, I should add a disclaimer that, if your relationship is on the rocks, it will take more than this to have a sex life in good standing. Unless, angry, mad sex turns you both on. We'll discuss this later, as well.
And if the man isn't interested, then ladies, you've possibly done something wrong, too.** Don't dismiss this. Men feel connected during sex (we like to talk, they like to be physical). It shows he's desired and he's allowing himself to be vulnerable with you. When you encourage sex, he feels secure. I regularly (borderline constantly) tell my man how much I desire him, how attracted to him I am, and build his ego (I love him, so why hold out on that?). I want to make sure that he knows exactly how into him I really am. He does the same, so I chalk this up to one of the reasons why we are so connected. So, if he's shutting you out, do some investigating to see what may have occurred to make him feel this way. Ladies need to keep the fire burning just as much as men. Kindle the flame if it's burning out, and reignite that passion!
Bottom line: we all like to be pursued. We all want to be wanted. If you are in a loving relationship, don't neglect each other.
Happy Humping!
*Obviously, these relationships were on the rocks, seeing as they all ended. I'm sure that strutting my naked self around a man who probably didn't feel very loved wasn't going to get me very far. Just because men seem more sexual doesn't mean that they don't need to feel secure before engaging in sex. Unfortunately, all I remember is that I was looking particularly hot and naked and he ignored me. Who knows what I did to deserve his indifference.
**As I read this to my boyfriend, he wants to add that this isn't always the case. He said, "he could just be a dick." I think he's pretty shocked that I was rejected in the past and so he's being protective. How sweet! And, he also adds that the man could be bored if he's not really into it anymore. Back to that whole Awwwwk-ward! post about spicing it up... there's more to come on this topic.
I've been in relationships where things started hot and heavy for maybe a month and then started to become average and, after a few months, I wanted to do it as much as I wanted to clean the bathroom. He'd always initiate it by asking or saying he wanted to have sex (right then and there) and I was always disinterested. I'd cave, say, "you've got three minutes," and count the seconds in my head (lit-er-all-y). How terrible is this, really?! What the hell was wrong with me...
Looking back, I guess the main issue was that I didn't feel pursued (and I felt disconnected). Did it really matter that he was having sex with me, or just that he was having sex? I surely didn't feel sexy. He'd make comments to me throughout the day about how sexy I was or something to that effect, but I never really felt it. When I was in the mood, it seemed he wasn't. Sometimes, he was holding out on me as payback. Another guy I was with would practically look through me, paying more attention to the television than his naked woman*. Trust me, I tested this many times.
I'm a very needy person when it comes to attention. I'm sure that most women are. And we love to be pursued. Often, guys think that this pursuit should end once they have us. Roommate, wife, whatever. Guys, I can tell you now..., start GENUINELY pursuing your woman and you'll get laid. We like the chase. And this chase doesn't mean two minutes of kissing our necks. It's an all-day event. Oh yes, that's right... Women don't typically wrap their heads around sex in a matter of seconds like guys do. You have to bypass all the clutter in our brains first.
Start the day with something romantic. We like to hear how much you love us, and how much we mean to you, so start there. I'll delve into this whole mush-factor later. By lunch time, get sexy. Let us know what you're thinking about---something that's driving you crazy about us. It doesn't even have to be extreme, but now that we're all melty from your loving comments, it's time to implant the sex seed. By dinner, remind us of one particularly steamy occasion. We love reminiscing. Maybe get a little touchy-feely but not too much. Let us desire you. I can't speak for the rest of us women, but I enjoy being teased as long as it ends well. If you keep putting these ideas in our minds, dessert will be most enjoyable. But, for women, it's about the chase and about the secret bond you are sharing with her. It's a level of intimacy that drives us crazy.
Now, I should add a disclaimer that, if your relationship is on the rocks, it will take more than this to have a sex life in good standing. Unless, angry, mad sex turns you both on. We'll discuss this later, as well.
And if the man isn't interested, then ladies, you've possibly done something wrong, too.** Don't dismiss this. Men feel connected during sex (we like to talk, they like to be physical). It shows he's desired and he's allowing himself to be vulnerable with you. When you encourage sex, he feels secure. I regularly (borderline constantly) tell my man how much I desire him, how attracted to him I am, and build his ego (I love him, so why hold out on that?). I want to make sure that he knows exactly how into him I really am. He does the same, so I chalk this up to one of the reasons why we are so connected. So, if he's shutting you out, do some investigating to see what may have occurred to make him feel this way. Ladies need to keep the fire burning just as much as men. Kindle the flame if it's burning out, and reignite that passion!
Bottom line: we all like to be pursued. We all want to be wanted. If you are in a loving relationship, don't neglect each other.
Happy Humping!
*Obviously, these relationships were on the rocks, seeing as they all ended. I'm sure that strutting my naked self around a man who probably didn't feel very loved wasn't going to get me very far. Just because men seem more sexual doesn't mean that they don't need to feel secure before engaging in sex. Unfortunately, all I remember is that I was looking particularly hot and naked and he ignored me. Who knows what I did to deserve his indifference.
**As I read this to my boyfriend, he wants to add that this isn't always the case. He said, "he could just be a dick." I think he's pretty shocked that I was rejected in the past and so he's being protective. How sweet! And, he also adds that the man could be bored if he's not really into it anymore. Back to that whole Awwwwk-ward! post about spicing it up... there's more to come on this topic.
Friday, September 2, 2011
Bigger is Better...?
Let's clear this up right here. Guys, when we say that size doesn't matter, we're telling the truth. Mostly. What really matters is how you use it. And other things.
Let's talk statistics again:
Did you know that only about 30% of women orgasm from vaginal-penile intercourse? Hello, boys... this is why your lady always has a "headache". Ladies, you need to speak up! Go read Awwwwk-ward! and come back.
So, guys, size doesn't really matter. To most of us, no matter how big and bad Krull The Warrior King is, unless he brings back-up, we aren't going to get there. And, sadly, there are actually women out there who have never even had an orgasm. What!?! If this is the case, then that 103 number is making sense.
So, let's prepare Krull for the ultimate battle. Not only will he need to be prepared for the cave, he should also know how to coax the dragon sitting outside.* Please the dragon, and you've got yourself one very ecstatic princess.
Krull's best weapons:
Happy Humping!
*Thaaat's right, Krull=penis, cave=vagina, and dragon=clitoris. Just in case you are ignorant to euphemisms and innuendos.
Let's talk statistics again:
Did you know that only about 30% of women orgasm from vaginal-penile intercourse? Hello, boys... this is why your lady always has a "headache". Ladies, you need to speak up! Go read Awwwwk-ward! and come back.
So, guys, size doesn't really matter. To most of us, no matter how big and bad Krull The Warrior King is, unless he brings back-up, we aren't going to get there. And, sadly, there are actually women out there who have never even had an orgasm. What!?! If this is the case, then that 103 number is making sense.
So, let's prepare Krull for the ultimate battle. Not only will he need to be prepared for the cave, he should also know how to coax the dragon sitting outside.* Please the dragon, and you've got yourself one very ecstatic princess.
Krull's best weapons:
- Foreplay. Engage in it! Seriously, let's get excited about sex! It's not a chore (internal link to come... oh yes, we are going to discuss this!). The more both parties are excited about it, the more relaxed you'll be, which will make it easier to orgasm. We'll get deeper in this later.
- Become a cunning linguist. Dine at the Y. Tip the velvet. Oral sex is one of the best ways to achieve an orgasm for a woman, since most female orgasms are achieved through clitoral stimulation. But, there are some do's and don'ts on both ends. Don't just dive in without knowing what you're doing, or at the very least, some confidence.
- Give her a hand. Clitoral stimulation during penile intercourse will definitely help out, but be gentle-ish. Also, you can hit the G-spot on the inside and the out. When pushing from the inside, press on the outside with the tip of your finger (or two)--think trying to touch tip to tip. Be sure that your thrusts match your pushing. Ohhhhmygod try this. And, you may have to come up with some creative positions to get deep and angled right. Missionary isn't gonna cut it unless you prop up her hips. Let's get creative, people! Try doggy-style or ladies on top. Be ready for some serious explosions.
- Use tools. Anything that stimulates the clitoris will cause some explosive orgasms during intercourse. These aren't really necessary if you plan to get completely involved. They just make things interesting.
- Get a map. There are tons of books, etc. with descriptive information on how to do be creative. A couple of my favorites are:
- Position of the Day 365 drawings of positions (I prefer drawings to photos, as I'm not comfortable with the full-on porn nature of those types).
- Ride 'Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets For Better Bucking This book is ahhhh-mazing! Lots of information...
Happy Humping!
*Thaaat's right, Krull=penis, cave=vagina, and dragon=clitoris. Just in case you are ignorant to euphemisms and innuendos.
Awwwwk-ward!
I think one of the main reasons that we fail to have great sex is because we are too embarrassed to actually voice what we want. Getting into a relationship alone seems like a huge task, so once you're there, why take the additional risk of being rejected?
Take that risk!
It's important for both people to realize that you have to be very careful of the other when discussing different ideas for spicing things up, or even for achieving good ol' great sex. If your partner brings an idea to the table, no matter how bizarre it is, really think about what s/he has gone through to come to the point of actually saying what they want. It's a lot of second-guessing and playing out different endings of being rejected. That doesn't mean roll over and do it, no matter how uncomfortable you feel about it. Just be easy on your response.
For instance:
Guy: "Hey babe, I was thinking tonight maybe we could, you know, take a tour of that new lingerie shop and get some ... I don't know, crotchless panties?"
Girl: "Oh my god! Are you serious? Do I look like a tramp to you?!"
Ok, so maybe that suggestion is a bit mild, comparatively, but let's not give all the secrets away all at once (crotchless panties, btw, are a great investment)! But the point is, her reaction to his idea will now shut down ideas for a long time, possibly shutting down sex, too. Chances are, if you're having sex, you're in a relationship, which you want to be built on trust, comfort, and understanding (if you're doing the one-night-stand thing, this blog probably won't be of any help to you!), and you will severely crush that foundation by instantly and insultingly rejecting the creativity of each other.
Instead, explore the reasons why:
a.) the person would like to implement said idea in the bedroom, and
b.) why you find it so uncomfortable.
Maybe he thinks it's a racy and sexy idea, like sex with a skirt on, of still wearing clothes but he's got ultimate access, and maybe she's afraid that it's inevitably going to make her feel like she's being someone else.
Side note: You've heard the sayings of the likes of Usher's Yeah!, "I want a lady on the streets but a freak in the bed!"... You can STILL be the highly professional, charity-driven, Mom Of The Year woman AND get your groove on (when I say "groove," I do **NOT** mean missionary position with your socks on) in your bedroom (or... ya know, other places). By all means, be a closet freak. It's not like you're the one coming out about it in a blog!
Back to crotchless-panty couple. If it's something that takes you a little out of your comfort zone, consider trying it on for size. If it's something like going from missionary-position-with-your-socks-on to anal beads, maaaaaaaybe suggest something a little milder. But don't don't don't make your partner feel like a complete perv for suggesting something new. Maybe more along the lines of, "you know, I'd love to spice up our sex life, but can we table that idea and try something a little different? Maybe we can revisit that idea when I feel a little more comfortable." Or drunk. Hahahaha! And really allow your head to wrap around the idea before shutting down the idea. If you think the idea is too much, maybe just say, "Let me think on it." And then go think on it. In a timely fashion. And respond.
Now, I've been the innocent little kitten, horrified by some of the things people do in the name of sex. I've been not-so-smooth in my rejections of ideas. Perhaps that's why I have fallen into that 85-times category a relationship or two. Or five. I do believe the openness I have in my current relationship is why the two of us are baffled at these statistics, knowing our own scores. I've been having sex for over a decade, not with the same person, and I've reviewed the past experiences and know that, when we're more open and accepting of each other and suggestions, the sex is more intimate, freeing, and bonding. That's right. Freeing AND bonding.
Freeing: You're having sex and for the better part of ten minutes, you're thinking, "this is great, but I really wish s/he'd do this..." The thought of actually forming words and speaking them nearly causes you to orgasm. Well, imagine actually speaking them. Tah-dah! Freeeeee-iiiiing!
Bonding: Hand-in-hand with "intimate," we are extremely close in our relationship because we talk about what's going on and we're open to each other. I don't wake up next to him in the morning, shielding my bright red face knowing what we did last night. Instead, we roll over, sigh, and, in unison, say, "ohhhhhmygod last night was amazing." What an incredible way to bond with your partner, really.
Happy Humping!
***I'm considering doing my blogs in alphabetical order, a Sex Alphabet, if you will. So, along with A for Awkward, I would also like to add A for Apologetic, in that I won't be apologetic for my blogs. Nor will I feel awkward and blush-y about sharing. Just so you know.***
Take that risk!
It's important for both people to realize that you have to be very careful of the other when discussing different ideas for spicing things up, or even for achieving good ol' great sex. If your partner brings an idea to the table, no matter how bizarre it is, really think about what s/he has gone through to come to the point of actually saying what they want. It's a lot of second-guessing and playing out different endings of being rejected. That doesn't mean roll over and do it, no matter how uncomfortable you feel about it. Just be easy on your response.
For instance:
Guy: "Hey babe, I was thinking tonight maybe we could, you know, take a tour of that new lingerie shop and get some ... I don't know, crotchless panties?"
Girl: "Oh my god! Are you serious? Do I look like a tramp to you?!"
Ok, so maybe that suggestion is a bit mild, comparatively, but let's not give all the secrets away all at once (crotchless panties, btw, are a great investment)! But the point is, her reaction to his idea will now shut down ideas for a long time, possibly shutting down sex, too. Chances are, if you're having sex, you're in a relationship, which you want to be built on trust, comfort, and understanding (if you're doing the one-night-stand thing, this blog probably won't be of any help to you!), and you will severely crush that foundation by instantly and insultingly rejecting the creativity of each other.
Instead, explore the reasons why:
a.) the person would like to implement said idea in the bedroom, and
b.) why you find it so uncomfortable.
Maybe he thinks it's a racy and sexy idea, like sex with a skirt on, of still wearing clothes but he's got ultimate access, and maybe she's afraid that it's inevitably going to make her feel like she's being someone else.
Side note: You've heard the sayings of the likes of Usher's Yeah!, "I want a lady on the streets but a freak in the bed!"... You can STILL be the highly professional, charity-driven, Mom Of The Year woman AND get your groove on (when I say "groove," I do **NOT** mean missionary position with your socks on) in your bedroom (or... ya know, other places). By all means, be a closet freak. It's not like you're the one coming out about it in a blog!
Back to crotchless-panty couple. If it's something that takes you a little out of your comfort zone, consider trying it on for size. If it's something like going from missionary-position-with-your-socks-on to anal beads, maaaaaaaybe suggest something a little milder. But don't don't don't make your partner feel like a complete perv for suggesting something new. Maybe more along the lines of, "you know, I'd love to spice up our sex life, but can we table that idea and try something a little different? Maybe we can revisit that idea when I feel a little more comfortable." Or drunk. Hahahaha! And really allow your head to wrap around the idea before shutting down the idea. If you think the idea is too much, maybe just say, "Let me think on it." And then go think on it. In a timely fashion. And respond.
Now, I've been the innocent little kitten, horrified by some of the things people do in the name of sex. I've been not-so-smooth in my rejections of ideas. Perhaps that's why I have fallen into that 85-times category a relationship or two. Or five. I do believe the openness I have in my current relationship is why the two of us are baffled at these statistics, knowing our own scores. I've been having sex for over a decade, not with the same person, and I've reviewed the past experiences and know that, when we're more open and accepting of each other and suggestions, the sex is more intimate, freeing, and bonding. That's right. Freeing AND bonding.
Freeing: You're having sex and for the better part of ten minutes, you're thinking, "this is great, but I really wish s/he'd do this..." The thought of actually forming words and speaking them nearly causes you to orgasm. Well, imagine actually speaking them. Tah-dah! Freeeeee-iiiiing!
Bonding: Hand-in-hand with "intimate," we are extremely close in our relationship because we talk about what's going on and we're open to each other. I don't wake up next to him in the morning, shielding my bright red face knowing what we did last night. Instead, we roll over, sigh, and, in unison, say, "ohhhhhmygod last night was amazing." What an incredible way to bond with your partner, really.
Happy Humping!
***I'm considering doing my blogs in alphabetical order, a Sex Alphabet, if you will. So, along with A for Awkward, I would also like to add A for Apologetic, in that I won't be apologetic for my blogs. Nor will I feel awkward and blush-y about sharing. Just so you know.***
Thursday, September 1, 2011
103 Times, My Ass!
So, I was watching MSNBC the other day and they were doing a story on a new TV series coming out on Discovery Channel called Curiosity, more specifically, an episode titled, Why is Sex Fun? They had interviewed a curator at the Museum of Sex (sign me up for that job!), and while she was talking, they were flashing statistics, like "The average person has sex 103 times a year," and "48% of people are satisfied with their sex life." When I saw these numbers, I was appalled! And, I thought that it was a figure for Americans, but I was wrong...
Thanks to this article, I was able to clear some things up:
How Does Your Sex Life Compare to the Rest of the World?
Now, the article was written in 2007 based on a study by Durex, also, I presume, done in 2007. Hopefully, times have changed. However, it states that Americans have sex 85 times a year. EIGHTY-FIVE!? I thought 103 was atrocious! I think my boyfriend and I have had sex 103 times in a single month. If not, then we came pretty close. So, imagine my devastation for the rest of the world with this study's grim findings.
Enter this blog.
I am creating this blog in hopes of coming up with something to assist people so that this number can multiply! I've been in relationships before that were less than a measly 85 and now that I'm in a hot and steamy one, I want to see if I can enlighten the rest of you on what I've found...
Happy Humping!
Thanks to this article, I was able to clear some things up:
How Does Your Sex Life Compare to the Rest of the World?
Now, the article was written in 2007 based on a study by Durex, also, I presume, done in 2007. Hopefully, times have changed. However, it states that Americans have sex 85 times a year. EIGHTY-FIVE!? I thought 103 was atrocious! I think my boyfriend and I have had sex 103 times in a single month. If not, then we came pretty close. So, imagine my devastation for the rest of the world with this study's grim findings.
Enter this blog.
I am creating this blog in hopes of coming up with something to assist people so that this number can multiply! I've been in relationships before that were less than a measly 85 and now that I'm in a hot and steamy one, I want to see if I can enlighten the rest of you on what I've found...
Happy Humping!
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